The Sacred Art of Self-Love

The Sacred Art of Self-Love: A Wise Mother’s Guidance

Beloved one,

Come here, my love. Sit with me for a moment. Let’s talk, heart to heart, as a wise mother speaks to her cherished child.

I see you. I see the way you give, the way you long to love and be loved, the way you pour yourself into others with an open, willing heart. But tell me, my dear… have you left anything for yourself?

You must understand—self-love is not selfish. It is sacred. It is the foundation upon which all other love is built. Before you can give your heart to another, you must first give it to yourself.

From the moment you took your first breath, you have been with yourself. Through every joy, every heartbreak, every season of growth and transformation, you have been the one constant in your life. And when your time comes to return home, you will leave this world in the same way you entered it—alone, yet full of the love you have cultivated within yourself.

So tell me, my love, how could you ever neglect the one person who has been with you through it all?

To love yourself is to honor yourself. It is to recognize that your needs, your dreams, and your well-being are just as important as anyone else’s. It is setting healthy boundaries—not walls, but sacred gates that only open for those who approach with respect, kindness, and reciprocity.

A wise woman does not beg for love, nor does she shrink herself to fit into spaces too small for her spirit. She does not settle for half-love, empty promises, or connections that drain her. She knows her worth. She understands that true love—whether it be romantic, platonic, or familial—should never cost her peace.

Love, my dear, should not leave you depleted. It should not require you to sacrifice yourself to the point of exhaustion. A wise woman holds love like a vast, abundant reservoir, allowing it to fill her so completely that it spills over into others effortlessly.

But if you are trying to pour from an empty cup, what are you truly giving? A drop of love? A trace of yourself? A shadow of your true essence? Love given from depletion is not love at all—it is survival.

Fill yourself first. Nurture your soul. Speak to yourself with kindness. Give yourself the patience, the grace, the forgiveness you so readily offer others. Stand in your fullness, and from that place, love will flow in its purest form.

When you find love in another, know this: they are a mirror. They can only reflect back the love you already hold for yourself. If you do not cherish yourself, you will find yourself drawn to those who do not cherish you. If you do not respect yourself, you will attract those who take you for granted.

But if you love yourself deeply, if you honor your own heart, you will attract those who see your worth—because you have already seen it within yourself.

So I ask you, my love, before you give yourself away so freely—have you given to yourself first? Have you spoken to yourself as gently as you wish to be spoken to? Have you held yourself the way you long to be held?

Do not wait for another to give you the love that is already within you. Do not search outside yourself for what has been inside you all along.

When you love yourself fully, wholly, and without condition, you become the embodiment of love itself. And from that place, love will flow to you, through you, and beyond you, effortlessly.

This is the kind of love that does not leave. This is the kind of love that stands the test of time.

And my dear, this is the kind of love you deserve.

Enjoy this guided meditation to further deepen your practice of cultivating self love:

https://youtu.be/n6lyBgujExQ?si=aNYyvYiAJ8KoiaQB

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